Son too skilled for LL
by Joy Lerma Refugio
May 10, 2012 | 306 views | 3 3 comments | 1 1 recommendations | email to a friend | print
Editor:

Little League... have you ever wondered what those words mean to a child? Well, I will tell you.

My son’s birthday is late and he was told he could not try out for his age group because his birthday was late and that he would have to play with younger kids.

He swallowed his pride and went to practice. These kids couldn’t catch or throw, much less hit a ball. Nothing against the kids, but he was beyond his team.

A couple of days later, his coach asked him to throw softer. He came home upset. Why should he have to lower his level of playing is what he asked me, his mother.

I told him, you shouldn’t. So I asked for him to be moved up to the next level and was told no.

Then we had practice and I told my son in front of his coach to throw the ball as I had taught him for years. His coach pulled me aside and informed me that he asked him to throw softer because of the kid he was throwing with.

I do understand that other kids can’t throw but why make my son lower himself because parents don’t teach their kids.

My son has been raised by his mother - by myself - the majority of his life. He shouldn’t have to lower his (skill) level for others plus the team he was going to play for needs a lot of training.

When we got the decision that he would not be moved, we asked for our money back. The president said yes and yet he is ignoring my calls and texts.

Plus they said the decision was personal because I, as a mother, went off on them when they attacked me and it is all documented on paper.

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Refugiofan12
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May 20, 2012
So you believe that the right thing to do is bend the rules for the kids that "above the skill level" of everyone elses average kids? Well everyone has the right to their own opinion and just as I stated mine and you stated yours Joy Lerma is going to continue to announce hers over and over and over again for anyone that may have missed it the first 20 times. She continues to go all over Refugio county talking very hateful about the LL board and to their families. There is a difference between being classy about it and trying to change it rather then just talking trash to everyone about any one who is involved in little league.
Refugiofan12
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May 10, 2012
This is so immature. These are young children that we are talking about this is not the pros & the fact that you go as far as saying that "because parents don’t teach their kids" Is beyond me. You are only embarrassing yourself by putting this garbage in the newspaper & all over Facebook. Every day you have something to say about the the little league, How much was your fee you paid I will give to you if you stop all this talking, I'm sure a lot of other parents agree too. at least now you knwo for next year not to put you child in it. it is only fair for them to go by the rules about his age & i'm sure there are other kids in the same situation and those parents are not acting the way you are. Everyones kids are important to them & i stand behind supporting kids 100% but teaching them its ok to bend rules for some kids isnt the right thing to do either.
renegade6
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May 17, 2012
Well unfortunately I would have to disagree with you Refugiofan12.. I experienced the same thing with my son and it does not do any good for the child that is experienced to have to play at the level of other kids. What does he learn from the experience,those that are upset are those who kids are not at skill level or above skill level.